Yes, men want to please you and provide as many of your emotional needs as they can, they ALSO want to ENJOY a woman .
It’s about the honest, vulnerable words you use and the feminine, soft, tender way you express them . Keep reading to learn more. “Thank you for writing this guide to love. I feel like books I read about men tell you an end-result of the kind of woman a man loves but these books detail how to get there.
Now … The secret is about knowing HOW to express your feelings to your man (even if it’s the first date) so that he will jump to his feet and break his back to please you! We know this but only after having figured it out on our own, after many years of expressing ourselves the wrong way.
I am a much more loving mate these days and getting a handle on my feelings made that transpire. I now am able to calm myself without looking to my mate to solve all my problems. I also stop my eruptive temper with him and even my children by doing the Turtle Re-Coop Exercise. I now know that anywhere I am I can checkout of the room, check in with myself and feel good. I also share my feelings to my mate with your Tool Box. Thanks.” Greta, 62, California “I have to let you two know that your candidness in the Platinum Mentoring Recordings and your thoughts on how to treat men has changed me.
We both THOUGHT men didn’t like our emotions, didn’t want to hear our feelings and didn’t want to take care of our hearts, so we kept our emotions hidden as long as we could.
And the secret to staying connected to him lies in HOW she communicates her feelings to him. Sarah , too, has been in a relationship with a wonderful man for five years now , and everyday he actually kisses her on the forehead and asks how she is feeling that day ! She turned everything around for herself when she STOPPED trying to be the Stepford-wife prototype that she thought every guy wanted her to be and started just letting men see her true feelings … however bad or good she felt that day.
This method will even deepen the bond between you both. It’s about being a genuine person and embracing your sensitivity and womanly passion for feeling your life deeply.
And then he will usually think HE did something wrong. A quality man will not want to be around a woman who doesn’t trust him enough to express herself to him.
You stay bottled-up but you have a disharmonious vibe where your insides and outside don’t match and a man feels, in his gut, that something is not safe and fun about the relationship.
In love there are two things: bodies and words. -Joyce Carol Oates We were wrong!! Men LOVE to take care of your feelings. It makes them feel on top of the world. Even men who are not that into you at first will still jump to do what they can to make you happy in their presence.
See, after MANY years of heartache, we have discovered an easy, natural method of expressing yourself to a man that will make him respond to your emotional needs EVERY TIME.
Sarah was the queen of bottling up her feelings. After years of unsuccessful attempts at romantic relationships, it became so automatic for her, that she no longer knew WHAT feelings she bottled or HOW to muster the courage to express them even if she wanted to.
It’s about loving your feelings and not apologizing for them . It’s about feeling everything and not running away from feellings but owning them and not letting them dictate your behavior in a way that pushes a man away, but instead, in a manner that actually brings him in.
Or it did last night. I was inspired by your two’s honesty about yourselves and decided to be courageous and speak about my fears in love to my husband.
He was quiet but attentive. I felt like I was naked or like my skin was unzipping to him. I felt ashamed like you guys say happens. It was like an experience I had once at church. I realized how different I treat men compared with women and how I don’t open up to my husband. Well, when we went to sleep later after everything, he thought I was sleeping but I heard him cry. He touched me exactly how you two taught me to touch him and how I did earlier in the night. It was a miracle. I called his sister and told her. Bless you both.” Nicole, 32, Washington D.C. 2nd Mistake To Kill His Love For You: You Stop Giving Yourself Permission to Enjoy Him Because Things Aren’t Perfect Between You Two Yet! So often, when we are all wrapped up in the bad stuff of a relationship, we stop having fun with a man and stop using our soft, sexy feminine power to inspire change in his behavior and feelings.
When a man feels you are unhappy and hiding your feelings, he automatically feels YOU CAN’T TRUST HIM with your truth.